In days gone by when school textbooks were English both in language and origin, we were taught the intricacies of monetary values in terms of pound, shilling and pence. To be pennywise, pound foolish is to be senwise but ringgit foolish which is to mean we could be so taken up about being overly concerned or “cautious with small amounts of money, but careless with larger amounts …” So if a person “spends very little on food during the week, then blows all his money drinking on the weekends”, we may say that he really is penny-wise, pound-foolish.
This idiomatic saying is about getting the bigger picture and understanding better what exactly it is we wish to achieve.
We of course have many examples of this here in our own backyard. For example, let us say I want some people to go away from the country and leave the whole country to me and my own kind. If this is my objective and without thinking things through I just say to them, “Go back to the Timbuktu you have come from!”, the effect may in fact be the opposite of what I had set out to achieve. These people’s reaction would more likely be to dig themselves deeper in and stay put. Instead of turning the heat on the people I had targetted, in effect, the heat will now be on me. And that is why those who behave in this way usually have to leave the country themselves. Ironically, those they had asked to leave stay put and instead they themselves have had to leave the country for a time. Thus, not only have I failed to achieve what I had set out to do, the situation is now worse for me than it was before.
Take another common example. If my objective is to get others to embrace my own relgious philosophy and practices, it would be “pennywise, pound foolish” for me to apply brute force to stop them from discussing some ramifications of my religion, for example, on their social life. In fact, it is only when others discuss my religion that I will have the opportunity to clarify some common misconceptions they may have of it. To ban others from talking about my religion will have a counter effect as many parents are finding out when they use their perceived authority and try to force their religion on their children in a myriad of misguided ways.
Today, there is a most critical issue for us Malaysians to consider. The time has come when we are asked what kind of nation we wish to be: to have more of the same or to effect change for the better. The time has come for us to set ourselves on the path to fundamental changes in the way we define who a Malaysian is, how the nation’s wealth is to be shared, how our children will be educated, how government contracts will be awarded, how we prioritise government spending, how we conduct our elections, how the police and judiciary should function, how ACA should prioritise who they should target their investigations on (only the small or especially on the big fishes?), how to restore pride to all citizens regarding their nation, how to listen and pay heed to the people’s cries, how to integrate east and west Malaysia, how to have freedom of information, how to rid ourselves of the abominable laws and the shameless ways in which they have been used against perceived “opponents” of the state. The list goes on.
In considering change, I must not be so naive as to expect that there will be no inconvenience of any sort to my normal routine. I must understand that change can, in the transition period, cause some hardship and pain. In choosing change, I must give up something relatively smaller in order to gain something much bigger and worthwhile. Some relative sacrifices have to be made. When I have my house painted, some furniture must be moved, the place will be a mess, and smell of new paint may irritate my nostrils. Change cannot be had without some tolerance for some things I normally will not care for. There may be some uncertainties and no matter how well managed, the markets may be nervous. Some effects will be worse than others.
In facing this, I must not turn inward and instinctively become even more inept in managing myself and my instincts and my resources and fall victim to the “pennywise, pound foolish” effect. To have the pounds, I need to give up my pennies. The higher goals, the bigger good must be my focus. For that, I welcome the coming change.
September 5, 2008 at 3:28 am
Going back to Timbuktu???! Wahlau eh…
It’s pathetic that after nearly 45 years of Malaysia’s formation, there’s a section of the population that couldn’t accept fully the concept of “integration”. Yes, we heard countless of time on slogans such as “Malaysia, truly Asia”, “Unity in Diversity” and so forth. But, in reality, we tend to “segregate” rather than “integrate”!
One fine example – it’s hardly to see Muslims to enjoy their morning coffee (I said “coffee” and not to include Wan Tan mee, Kolok mee, etc.) at any Chinese (including other non-Muslims’) café nowadays. In the past, I have witnessed one or two Pak Aji(s) sipped their coffee at Chinese-owned kopitiams. Well, I guessed that there’s nothing wrong with that, as long as the cups were not used to serve alcoholic drinks, right?!
And what about the situation right now? Well, may be we can have more answers at Star Bucks, Coffee Beans and other high class cafés in the country… sort of “faked” integration!
I would rather put the whole blame to those bullshitting racists, what a shame to have them as Malaysia citizens!
September 5, 2008 at 6:26 am
hey..nice pic of Taiping Lake Garden…used to lepak there after school…
September 5, 2008 at 2:26 pm
My children missed the experiences I underwent when I was in a convent school, way back in the late 50s until late 60s. Although I seemed to be a ‘minority’ in that school, which comprised almost 90% non-Malays, the feeling of being ‘left-out’ or segregated did not persist. The nuns (mostly foreigners at that time) treated all of us equally in every aspect of education – no dicrimination, no prejudice! Comparing to what my children had gone through, there are vast differences in the process of moulding up a child’s physical, mental, spiritual and intellect capabilities of the yesteryears and of the current years. They are so racial and religious conscious, lack of trust and also respect for their non-Malay friends and worse still, not ready to compete academically. All my children attended boarding schools and I could see the flaws in the building up of their personalities under the system of ‘one race under one roof’. I was quick to realise that and having my way of ‘retracking’ them, they are now able to assimilate themselves since they are all working in private sectors / international companies. It is touching to see them bringing home multi- racial and multi- religious friends/colleagues, and celebrating various festivals together. My concern is, are the present younger generations of Malaysia able to uphold the unity, togetherness, solidarity, tolerence and diversity as what my schoolmates and I were able to do during our 11 years of schooling in the convent? I’m afraid that because of our present education system, the drifting away of the different races is imminent. Unless there is a change in our present government, we are going to face regression in many aspects of our lives.
September 5, 2008 at 3:22 pm
Intergration can never be achieved till our Govt disbands the BTN and stop paying their salaries. It is no use saying that Malaysia is for all Malaysians, I am a PM for all Malaysians etc whilst the BTN goes around with impunity and supported by the same govt to do the opposite.